DREAMS Vs REALITY-a mere quote or truth of life...

Truly want the dreams to win this time.....

I came back from office and all of a sudden my mom asked to be ready because there was a lady coming to see me for some nephew of hers. The moment I heard this, it was as if a shiver passed down my body.I was quite amazed also because I always knew it will happen but like this??? like every girl i too had some expectations from the guy I would be spending my whole life with or you can say the perfect guy I always imagined. Anyways after the entire episode I saw his pic on net, and to the worst of the case, he was not at all as I imagined, although my parents found him quite fine,but he just didn't click. The voice that I was expecting to come from my inside was missing and I said "NO". Hearing a lot of indirect convincing, i suddenly realized how difficult it was to actually find your Mr. Perfect.Not at all being filmy also leaves you with a little bit of expectations and details about your guy. It left me with an unease and shocking feeling too because it was the thing that all of us have heard right from our childhood that we will be getting married but still then i felt like crying like a kid thinking how difficult it would be to spend the entire life with the one whom you chose merely meeting for three-four times. Still entrapped in my thoughts n thinking, will the outline i drew for that guy will actually fit the guy i will have to marry & if not how would i adjust.

Will the saying "Dreams only come true for those who dare to dream"...... come true in my case also or it was a rubbish saying to give people false hopes and my dreams and imagination will die on the shores of the harsh and cruel reality!!!!They say i am over expecting and guess maybe i am....

 Keeping my fingers crossed & for all the girls who are going through the same phase....

Beauty comes with a price~!!!!

Everything comes with a price, often heard by everyone and a lot of times, I never actually did understand its meaning until that day. I joined a coaching class for M.B.A. preparation. Irritated by the comments and the weird stares of the people around me it was very hard to concentrate on my studies. Still, I managed to concentrate somehow, but was not very helpful for quite long since those  embarassing stares became a part of my regular routine over there. Once, after the lectures ended,frustrated by whatever used to happened for the whole day, I packed my bags to come back to my home. During my journey back home one of my fast friend came to know why was I feeling so off. She then said something which still echos in my ear and till date helps me whenever I am in such a situation of being "stared" or such things. She gently said," this is how the way it is to be". Shockingly and unable to understand I asked her what was she saying?

She continued," it will be this way no matter wherever you go, these stares and everything. Accept the fact that  if you have got a nice face, these things will continue, its just that if you accept that out of the billions on this world, you are among the one who are gifted,then it will become a lot easier for you to handle such situations throughout. Have pride in it and not embarrassment." That day I actually understood the meaning of the line I mentioned in the starting , its just that it took me to understand that  "BEAUTY TOO COMES WITH A PRICE"......It became a lot easier to handle such things  from that day onwards. Those were the magical words which still help me to get through such a situation, because i know that I am not the only one who has faced it, there are a million out there who go through this either in their jobs with their colleagues staring as if they were something to eat or by their boss and so helpless to act because in other's dictionary it is just seeing but the female instincts are always there with her to tell someone's intentions. 

I would love to hear your experiences. Common all you girls come out with what you could not speak to anyone.......

Monday morning blues......

Since i am a very new blogger so i am just trying my hand at it.Thought of sharing my experience on a Monday morning which give morning blues...zzzZZZZZZ to most of us.Hating the sound of the alarm I still managed to get up to go to my office. Looking back to my bed actually made me feel its calling me but this charming idea of Stopping by the woods didn't do n looking at the clock reminded me the of the hundred miles i still had to go....

Anyways just to add, it started raining....i thought i would be able to make it. Moments after my stepping out of my house the rain started so heavily as if it was just waiting for me to get out and ready to take its revenge for what wrong i did, i seriously do not know.....moving ahead i could not spot a single auto rickshaw even at the auto stand. Soon the water level began to rise.Even with the poor umbrella ,"Thou could not be saved". Finally i got an auto and my umbrella got stuck. In my endless attempts to close it i could not.People in the vehicle passing by staring at me as if i have lost it...suddenly in the midst of it i managed to look outside.. For that moment I forgot my stuck umbrella n d people around....it was breathtaking. Everything was so beautiful with the rain making the entire city so green and dustless. The trees off the lanes reminding me of the beautiful places we often see in the movies and calling me to dance with them.The wind passing by my cheeks, swirling around asking me to play....suddenly we took a wrong turn. I managed to reach office few mins. late with more than what i agreed to pay.By the time i had enough adventure to be left with any energy to do work. Reaching on to my desk and seeing the computer made me feel sleeping again wanting to go and enjoy outside.....